How And Why Girls Lead You On
Every weekday on LIVE at 11:30 AM, join Dallas as she gives you advice about your Sex and Dating questions, and her objective is to get you the sex you want in your personal life.
Piece of Advice from yesterday’s show:
When a girl gives you lame excuses about why she can’t see you and it seems no matter what you suggest she’s too busy: she’s not interested, but just won’t tell you “no†for two reasons:
a) She’d like to keep you on the backburner in case she ever needs you for anything in the future.
ie: help moving, shoulder to cry on, financial assistance in a pinch….but not getting laid.
b) She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings…. Again in case she ever needs you for anything. Cut that girl loose! Stop calling. Stop offering your time. Start looking for a girl that gives you a definite “yes†instead of a “maybe later†which pretty much always means “no.†Tune in to Naughty Americans LIVE every weekday at 11:30 AM and have your questions ready!
I can’t make your show at 5 so I figured I’d ask a question some might also have if you’ll indulge me.
Scenario – You’ve learned all the trips to getting your girl off multiple times.
Your sex life is great and she wants it to keep happening every day.
However now that she’s getting off faster and multiple times the sex has gone from hours of fun every other day or so to she’s exhausted after 30 minutes now but she wants it everyday.
How can you get back to the hour sessions instead. It’s killing me do have sex everyday especially when its only for 30 minutes at a time instead of what it use to be. I thought about switching things up to where she doesn’t get as aroused but she’s so use to getting her multiples that if I don’t perform properly she’s not satisfied.
Any suggestions?
Yes!
And thank you for reminding me to change the time: Its now at 11:30 AM PST
First of All…..Every Man’s dream, and its a burden lol.
Always perform your best. People just have different libidos! Usually I’d say find someone with a compatible libido, but in this case, it looks like you did; but your sex got SO GREAT, and now she wants it ALL the time, and its TOO much!
Communication would be great in a situation like this. Hopefully you dont have the timer out, but there’s really no way to tell her to last twice as long as she can. Its also not fair to slack.
How about going slow at some points and not full-on for 30 min. THat will make the whole thing last longer on both ends.
As for Frequency: You’ve got to come to some sort of arrangement if everyday is just too much. Help her pick out some great toys that you can even help her use….thats right, dont expect her to just not get what she needs.
Shes telling you she needs a certain amount, which means she’s going to get it. Don’t encourage her to get it elsewhere by telling her no. But, helping her out from time to time with some great toys could be just the ticket.
For example, I got a sybian bc I am single and my pussy is way too good for randoms. My sybian is soooooo powerful, that can even be too much for me. If you find a toy that really Really REALLY satisfies her, you may be the one knocking on the door and asking her to put it away.
All in all, every day, every other day: its still alot, and it seems communication will help.
Dont phrase it like you can’t keep up. Phrase it like: She’s so amazing, she takes so much out of you, that in order to give her your best you’re going to have to have a rest sometimes.
If this doesn’t work and you’re both not willing to compromise, you may find out you’d both be happier with a more similar libido.
I may have to look into that Sybian. We’ve experimented with toys before but she isn’t to much into them so far. We’ve got a whole drawer full of things and she’s probably only opened it once in the last 6 months when I had to go out of town. Thankfully she did text me all the details lol.
Any other ideas on toys?
But it isn’t the frequency though that really bothers me. I just think its one of the causes of the shorter sessions instead of the longer ones that I most enjoy.
HAHA and thanks for the rephrasing lol. I’m definitely more careful with my words when I actually talk to her about things then when I’m typing. Most of the time I type faster then my mind works lol.
I Like the Rabbit. Just go crazy in the store. Get her a gift certificate and let her go alone. That way she doesn’t have to explain anything or hold back.
You can always practice lasting longer. Just when you’re getting close, pull back. There was a guy who used to stay hard long after he came, and he would just not tell me he already came!
no need to do that, just pull back and it’ll last longer.
By the way, “already came guy” that’s probably because I would have him going for 3 hours minimum.
Honestly, I don’t know what the big deal is about an hour. Half an hour in is just getting started if she’s anything like me. ….And by Like me, I mean, completely insatiable with absolutely everything.
If she’s insatiable, like I am, I mean, if we’re going for a certain amount of time, and I’ve already come like 20+ times, I’m good. I dont ever want to stop if you can still go, but I’m really okay to stop at any point.
Basically: I’ll be a little bummed when its over if its 1 hour, 2 hours, 3 hours. doesnt matter bc I’d like to be doing it all the time, but I’m still glad we did it. Does that make sense?
You can gauge her by communication. See where she’s at. Ahead of time, since it looks like you’ve already been talking about it, ask how far in till she’s usually satisfied?
About how many times does she really need to come before she’s cool if you stop. Of course, she’ll be a little bummed its over, but at least that way she’ll get what she actually needs.