Do You Fantasize About Others During Sex?
In a recent article on CNN.com entitled “Who Are You Fantasizing About During Sex?” the author Ian Kerner poses the question “…have you ever fantasized during sex about someone other than the person you’re actually having sex with? Perhaps there’s a particular celebrity that turns you on, or a former flame, or even … a sister-in-law?”
He then goes on to explain that fantasizing during sex is not an indicator that you have an unfulfilling sex life. Rather, it indicates you have a healthy sex life. “The brain is the biggest sex organ and a little fantasizing goes a long way.”
Kerner makes a great point, and this disproves the misconception that porn is only for people that can’t get any action.
Porn is a tool that helps facilitate fantasies. Websites that play into men’s fantasies such as My Friend’s Hot Mom, My First Sex Teacher, and Seduced By A Cougar, all give men a visual manifestation of their sexual fantasies. Whether you later recall these fantasies in your mind during sex with a partner or on your own time, fantasizing is a healthy part of your sex life.
So Naughty Americans, I have to ask: Have you fantasized about someone else during sex…someone other than the person you were having sex with? If so, what was the situation, and what did you fantasize about?
i often fantasize about people i haven’t actually met in real life. if i meet someone i like over the internet but never physically meet them then i will imagine i’m having sex with that person.
I think Fantasy is SO strong Especially before you meet a person or have sex with them! That’s a big reason why it can be even better by the time you actually do get together, becasue you’ve fantasized about it for so long. Good point!