One of the things I find sexy about a man is passion. When I can see that a man is passionate about his job or a hobby, chances are his passion translates to other aspects of his life as well.

It’s so common these days for people to be jaded or to just float through life. I think it is sexy when a guy is passionate about something. It separates him, and makes him stand out as an individual.

I first noticed this in college when I dated a pro-snowboarder. His life was centered on snowboarding. When he wasn’t riding, he was dreaming about it, talking about it, watching videos, or buying/ researching new gear. He told me once, “Why do anything if you are not passionate about it?”

The next time I noticed this was in my ex-boyfriend who was a wine fanatic. He hated his job, but he was passionate about wine. I loved learning everything I could about the topic. Any girl loves seeing the spark that lights up in a man’s eyes when he gets to show off the passions that excite him most.

On the other hand, if he is passionate about religion or politics, I don’t find it sexy. Those conversations tend to get heated fast, and scare me away.

It’s sexy to hear a man speak of the things he is most passionate about because all of the sudden he becomes the center of attention. He suddenly speaks with authority, and will tell you every detail about the topic. I love to learn when I can, and passionate men can be some of the best to learn from.