She said that during sex he talked way too much! She said he’d say things like, “What are you thinking right now?…Do you want to move in with me?…I think we should live together….I’ll raise your son and we can be a family… You can go to school and I’ll take care of you….”

WOW Not Sexy.

My friend is the most non-committal girl ever, so hearing something like this really freaks her out…especially in the moment. When she’s thinking logically, she realizes it could be a really good deal, but in the moment she needs someone to be more sexual….less Dr. Phil.

I think that his fantasy is: to have a family and to settle down. So, that would really turn him on to hear her say what he wants her wants to say. However, she is not going to say what he wants to hear, and she is definitely not hearing the things that turn her on in bed.

She and I agree, the deepest convo you should be having during sex is, “Oh yeah deeper deeper yeah!” Not this guy. He would love her to propose to him in bed.

Is this a case of complete incompatibility? I don’t know, but they definitely need to have a little talk outside the bedroom. You know a “turn-ons,” “turn-offs,” and “what to never never say in bed because it makes it impossible to cum” kind of talk.

It’s so common these days for people to be jaded or to just float through life. I think it is sexy when a guy is passionate about something. It separates him, and makes him stand out as an individual.

I first noticed this in college when I dated a pro-snowboarder. His life was centered on snowboarding. When he wasn’t riding, he was dreaming about it, talking about it, watching videos, or buying/ researching new gear. He told me once, “Why do anything if you are not passionate about it?”

The next time I noticed this was in my ex-boyfriend who was a wine fanatic. He hated his job, but he was passionate about wine. I loved learning everything I could about the topic. Any girl loves seeing the spark that lights up in a man’s eyes when he gets to show off the passions that excite him most.

On the other hand, if he is passionate about religion or politics, I don’t find it sexy. Those conversations tend to get heated fast, and scare me away.

It’s sexy to hear a man speak of the things he is most passionate about because all of the sudden he becomes the center of attention. He suddenly speaks with authority, and will tell you every detail about the topic. I love to learn when I can, and passionate men can be some of the best to learn from.

According to Dr. Virgil Amend on howlifeworks.com, “dating and mating is highly influenced by pheromones, powerful air-borne chemical hormones produced by the body that fill the air around us to attract the opposite sex.”

There have also been studies that show a positive correlation between pheromones and testosterone levels in men.

I have heard about pheromones, but I never knew exactly how this worked or if it was even real.

Recently I’ve been noticing: when I’m attracted to men, I think I am responding to pheromones.

Yesterday a business associate came to the office. I am not physically attracted to him, even though he’s in great shape and most people find him extremely sexy. I’m not attracted to him for many reasons, but for some reason when he is around I get so turned on! It has to be the pheromones.

Also, last week I was at the grocery store. Same thing happened: a guy I’m not physically attracted to was standing right behind me. He looked like he had come straight from the gym.

Suddenly I wanted to rip his clothes off! I contrived a sexual fantasy about him right at the check stand. The only thing that prevented my fantasy from coming true was the lady ringing me up, and the fact that he didn’t talk to me first (huge turn off.)

I can’t say whether pheromone potions work, but I’ve seen the effects of natural pheromones.

According to Chris Chew in “Testosterone for Muscle Gain and Boost Pheromone Production,” a key determinant in a man’s level of pheromones is his testosterone level, which also increases his muscle size and strength.

This could explain why I am mysteriously attracted to muscle-men, even when I wouldn’t generally consider dating them.

This is very true, however you need to pick porn that everyone involved in the sexual experience will enjoy. Recently I was in a situation where the porn that was selected was something that specifically and completely turned me off. Needless to say there was no sexual experience to speak of thereafter.

What I like best about Naughty America Porn is that women are respected. I know that I can go on this site any time and select any scene and know it is something that will be fun, exciting, and sexy, without containing anything offensive or degrading.

I will only watch adult videos that portray situations and sexual experiences that I would like to experience in my own life. I am very selective of the videos I watch because for me as a woman, I think I should be just as aroused as the man in any sexual situation. When I choose porn, I usually stick with certain directors and production companies that I know I can trust so I don’t waste money on things I dislike.