On my show, I love helping guys get laid in their personal lives. One of the things I tell them over and over again is to not be so hell-bent on one girl or so horney in general that they scare the girls away by looking too desperate. It’s a huge turn-off.

Generally I am not a girl that has sex the first date, second, or any formula thereof. I have sex whenever I fucking feel like it, and a guy being too pushy is not going to sway me in the direction he wants any time soon.

Do you have any idea how often I literally have to throw guys out? Literally I have to tell them they need to leave Now. That’s generally how my dates end. The guys could just leave, make me fantasize about them all night, and maybe get a slam dunk next time, but no. Instead they’d rather be way too pushy, turn me off completely and make me have me tell them directly, Look, you seriously need to get the fuck out.

Example: This weekend I met a guy who was completely cute. We ended up going to dinner that night, I had a great time, and I was into him. He walked me home.all good things.

But then how the hell do I get rid of him? I said good night. He didn’t leave. I told him I had to get to bed. He didn’t leave. Even before we left the restaurant and he told one of his friends he was going to walk me home, I thought, “Fuck, please no, I really hope I don’t have to throw him out. That is so not sexy.”

After telling him everything I could muster-up to the effect of Hey, thank you, its really time to go now, trust me, I started on with my regular business as if he wasn’t even there.

I went inside, grabbed a mop and bucket, took it in the elevator of my building, went down to the basement and started mopping up a mess I’d made earlier (In 5 inch heels). He still didn’t take the hint.nor did he help.

As we got back up to my apartment, I was not about to let him back in. I lost count of how many times I told him good night, but I think he finally got the hint when I opened my door, ran inside and physically blocked him from getting in.

THEN Cassanova went in for the kiss.about half an hour too late buddy.game over, but thanks for playin.